MES
I approached Dr Munita having so many issues going round my head not sure where & how to start I tried to clear my head and asked myself, what’s the most important issue you want to address and I realised that it was the relationship with my daughter who is 18 approaching 19 years.
I wasn’t quite sure how Dr Munita would help but I realised I did need help so I discussed with my daughter who was happy to have the sessions. We started having mother and daughter coaching sessions.
Initially I fell very awkward, asked myself, will I be judged ?
How is this going to work ?
How would my daughter react ?
Will we be truthful to each other ?
Dr Munita was really amazing. She made us feel very comfortable, gave us our space and time with her guidance but at the same time never made us feel judged or uncomfortable.
She gave us the chance to express our feelings of anger, dissatisfaction and love. Dr Munita was the peace keeper.
From the first session I felt so relieved, felt that actually this is going to work, and felt that the experience was great.
From there on, my daughter and I looked forward to the sessions with Dr Munita.
My relationship with my daughter was versatile, good days and bad days.
We both realised by the third session that actually we were fighting generational differences.
We were both right in so many things but it’s the way you look at things that made the difference. We learned to value and respect each other opinions and thoughts.
Our relationship started to take another level.
We are both really happy now and enjoy each other’s company.
We learned that it’s ok to have different opinions but as long as we respect and tolerate each other things will work out.
I have done the wheel of life exercise before the first appointment which made me realise that despite the strong person I consider myself to be, I had a serious gap in my mental and emotional health. Many times we don’t realise where the gap lies.
If you have similar experiences please seek help. Don’t go through it by yourself - ask for help , you will be amazed at how things can change.
Thank you, Dr Munita.
